Blame it on Age

When I was younger , I mean very young … I would be so embarrassed by my parents .. I know we all go thru that stage . One of my most awkward moments are when my friends come home and my dad will be in his whitey tighties walking around the house , no sign of remorse nor embarrassment at all … Actually having decent conversations with my girlfriends … I wanted the earth to swallow me whole … Then . 

After a few incidents , I became friendly with my next door neighbor who is European , I would go playing with her in her home . I would happen upon her dad … Too in his whitey tighties … Pls remember this was before the time of the boxers , I then thought … Hmmm maybe this is a common thing ? 

When I had kids , they had play dates and I had to send my son to a play date , I insisted on getting out of the car to greet the parents , in their house. I went down , into the house and the dad was standing there .. In his whitey tighties …. Ummm , I did make the fastest turn around and muttered something I don’t even remember now under my breath , something like ” thank you ” ! Hahah 

Many years ahead … Now , I realize that when I get home at the end of the day … The first thing I do is to take off all my clothes and wear a big T shirt … And of course .. My whitey tighties … 
I Blame it on age . I feel most comfortable now with an old T – shirt , ragged sweats .. And my old old blankie … While I just rot on the sofa .. Watching Chicago PD …. Such is my bliss nowadays .

Last summer , I had some incidents with my kids … Them sort of late bloomers .. Getting into trouble in their 20 ‘s . I was stressed out sitting in my TV room at around 2 am thinking about the kids , in my old T shirt and panties …. Then my son’s best friend walks into the room to try to make me feel better …. I quickly put a pillow on my lap and point down saying …. 

“Yo , I’m not properly dressed” …  To which he replied , ” don’t worry I don’t mind ” …
Ummmm … To which I thought , yo , I mind !!! 
To those who always makes fun of their parents or hate on their parents … A word to the wise …. We all come full circle … We become our parents .

Rika

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just a girl who wants to live her life to the fullest ... smell all the roses, walk thru all the green grasses ... jump over all the fences ... she laughs too loud , cries at movies ... and she loves her dogs too much, now she is also mummy to an exotic cat that thinks he is a dog ...

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